1. Do you miss Cory? ( no offense Cory, your an amazing guy) But no people I do not miss him. I left him!!! I didn't just one day think oh hey I think my marriage is over. I had been trying to communicate with him. Trying to change the way of thinking. But at the end of it all I knew we were done when I didn't fight for him. I do not miss him.
2. Is he going to be in the delivery room with you? HELL NO people!!!!!! hahahaha I need someone who will keep me busy. We all know Cory to be very quiet and shy. I need someone who will keep talking and talking and talking about nothing really to keep me busy. PLUS he's my EX-husband. He will be notified and kept up to speed on everything of course. So when she is born he can see his little girl!!!
3. Did you know before you got married? Why did you get married? Why do any of us get married, because we believe in the happily ever after. We believe that we will change.I do need to be honest, I had a feeling where my intentions were. I thought I would get over those feelings. I thought I would be able to change myself to fit him better. Realizing later on that I was not going to change for him. That I was not going to fake it till we made it because I was done awhile back. So part of me knew going in, that it was going to be an effort on my part. Cory is someone very quiet and well I talk up a storm. I want to make it clear thought, that it does take two to get married, and when the marriage falls apart that as well took two people. Not blaming him at all.
Those are the three most annoying questions I have been hearing. I get everyone is curious and I understand that. I didn't just leave him for a game. This divorce is not a game to me. I was not happy, so I owe it to myself to find happiness. Cory deserves to have someone completely willing to fight for him, I wasn't. He is an amazing man, very caring, understanding, quiet, good work ethics, has good family relations, he will be an amazing father no doubt. BUT he was not meant for me. I think back to the days where I wasn't lieing to myself and it was a long time ago. I know that Cory and I will be alright. But people's opinions need to stop. We all have a right to an opinion but keep it to yourself and don't hate me for what I did. Maybe try to appreciate that I did the right thing. I let go so Cory and I can truly be happy with other people ( or alone )
Marriages fail. What makes it worse is when people take sides. THERE IS NO SIDE. Cory and I are working together for this little baby. That's who's side people should be on.. Avery's side. She will have an amazing family no matter what. Me being with Cory or not, She will still have a mommy and daddy who love her endlessly.
No comments:
Post a Comment